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punishment.
For centuries, corporal punishment (physical) and the slaps on the back have been considered a necessary and even desirable to discipline children.
In a correlative study, spanking of parents were associated with children's antisocial behavior, like cheating, lying, being mean to others, bullying, fighting and being disobedient (Strauss, Sugarman and Giles-Sims, 1997)
A study was conducted in the United States where he became a track where the children of mothers who used corporal punishment as discipline, children two years later clearly showed antisocial behavior, yet no studies on positive punishment that claim to have achieved very good results make the child obey, at least in the short term period. (Day & Roberts, 1993).
What are the reasons why corporal punishment should be avoided?
Some of the reasons why parents should consider using corporal punishment on their children as a strategy to modify their behavior are as follows:
1. When severe punishment is used as shouting or slaps, the adult (or your mom or dad) are submitting the child a model of behavior that is out of control over to solve problems. The child can easily copy this model and use it in their daily lives, reacting to stressful situations such as, ridiculed by his peers, the teacher reprimands, frustration into action to communicate or interact with others, failure, etc.
2. The constant punishment can instill fear, anger or avoidance in children. Skinner address this situation showed great concern. When spanking a child you are posting information into the child who asks to move away from the stimulus that hurts, so do not be surprised if the child avoids you and you have fear, the more likely he / she finishes associating the aggressor with pain, anger, hatred, fear and destructive emotions Sin.
3. The purpose of punishment is to tell people "that do not have to do instead of what to do." A tip that can be useful when punishing a child is that at the time of warnings such as "Do not play with it" complements the sentence saying "do not mess with that, because it's better not to play with another or do this" . The mistake that some parents punish their children when it is not giving the right choice so if you do.
The child who has taken a fancy to play with mom's clothes and did not find nothing better to remove the entire cabinet, if the mother is and only scolds him for this action, without giving a more positive such as messing rather than make the child double or classify or separate the clothes, it is likely to continue doing so mother barely not looking for this Hence the punishment that the baby can not you make useful because the behavior is likely to recur, because the child was not taught what they had to face that situation.
4. The punishment can be abusive. When parents punish their child is not meant to abuse him, but the adrenaline, the fury and anger that erupts when the father makes losing control over the situation and may no longer be punishing the child only have not gone to bed early, but also for unpaid bills, the scolding of the head, the heel of the twelve, and so on. (Adams, 1998).
5. What punishment can be considered to be strengthening. The child can learn to behave badly can attract the attention of parents, teachers or classmates, possessed by the other children or siblings. Studies have shown that a significant percentage of adult corporal punishment on their children were punished the same way to their parents, they justified the attacks saying that if they worked.
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This information was taken from the blog Psychology Didactic
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