COORDINATED HOW TO MAINTAIN A STANDARD
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is often found to abruptly situations to which each partner responds differently, often spent time coordinated when children are asleep save effectively resolve conflicts and everyday situations.
Anchor 1, which limits you will have at home: Do not raise your feet on the sofa or keep the clothes in the washer basket are good examples.
2 º Deciding what to do when not fulfilled: the couch with a clean cloth or clothing in charge of ordering the cabinet can be consequences to the breach of the standard. 3 º
also describe the positive: identify the appropriateness of their behavior with a smile or cook your favorite dinner can meet this goal. 4 º
Once you have it communicated to the children, You will remain steadfast in the maintenance of grounds.
often happens that rush or lack of practice makes us forget about the arrangements, tiredness facilitators to raise the tone of voice, spontaneity of children brings situations that we have seen, when this is ocrre useful: 1,
Establish a signal to your partner, touching her elbow, throat clearing, touching the leg ...
2 º There is always one that is more disturbed than the other when such situations arise, you feel more at ease will make the signal to another and then:
- The receiving signal is removed, leaving the other to resume the ongoing situation agreed.
- We both retired and decided what effect will this new situation.
At first getting used to "signal", the practice will facilitate coordination partners.
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